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Thursday, August 3, 2017

SHE LOVED SO MUCH THAT SHE LOST HERSELF.


DON'T LOOSE WHO YOU ARE BECAUSE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP.


You're in love with him. You are head-over-heels for a man that is making you into a woman you don't recognize. 
You've always prided yourself on not caring what others thought about you.
You took pride in knowing what you wanted to do with the rest of your life.
You were confident in who you were and who you wanted to be. 
You were the woman that had it all together.

Then, you fell in love...
You fell for a man that began to change who you were. It's not his fault though. You began to change because you wanted to make him happy, not because he asked you to. 

You knew exactly what you wanted out of life. You knew what career you wanted, where you wanted to live.You did what you loved . You lived and where free to be you. but you changed . You called it growing up. You called it your ROLE as a woman.

You aren't as confident in yourself.
The person that you are now, you don't seem to recognize. You are not being true to you but being true to everyone else you take care of. 
Your voice is silent .You silenced it. You have put your dreams on hold to let those around you shine. You have given up a lot for people who do not even recognize your efforts .The same people that think you need to give even more of yourself because you are still not doing enough. 
Your no longer the ball of energy that people fell in love  with. You have lost everything that made you stand out .Everything that made you special. You have faded into the background and even you don't find you attractive

So, now you're second guessing yourself. 
That's because this person isn't you...
This is who you think he needs you to be. This is the woman that you feel like you have to be to earn his love.
Nobody is worth losing yourself over.
Once you lose yourself, you lose your worth. You become a woman you don't recognize and have a hard time believing in. You become someone  that can't stand to look herself in the mirror because you'll see the face of the woman you used to be.That will forever haunt you.

You should never lose yourself to the man you love. You shouldn't have to become someone else to earn his love or respect. So, take a long look in the mirror and become you again. 
Embrace yourself, because you are worth so much more than you realize. You deserve so much more.Love you first then everyone around you will see your worth again and will treat you better because you respect you.
If you haven't found her already, you deserve to find yourself and know that the man you love fell in love with who you where when he met you .
When you loose you he also loses apart of you.

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