Also read my previous article, marriage/ love is not bed of roses.Love is to accept the fault, and bury the blame.That quote has stuck with me because,"Pain doesn't mean the absence of love .
Struggling is everywhere, it doesn't get easier if you change the person . Everyone carries their own baggage and when two people come to live together .You then have to learn how to make each other one unit, and that is the point individual baggage tends to break people apart.learning each others flaws and accepting them and finding away to operate as a unit is hard work.
To commit
fully to a person, and ride the waves till the end doesn’t mean, it will be a bed
of roses .
When you date a person, it is to figure out compatibility and when the time comes for you to make the decision. You choose what you are willing to live with and what you are not.
When you date a person, it is to figure out compatibility and when the time comes for you to make the decision. You choose what you are willing to live with and what you are not.
When you live with someone ,you get to see the real them . How they react to problems from bills.How they react to seeing you every single moment .With the only moments of privacy you get are in the bathroom or when they are out of the house.Or even how you react when their friends come over and you cant walk around the house freely, Or event how you have family over and your budget is yelling OH NOOOO!!!!
Living together is the true test of relationships in my opinion. If your Words don’t complement actions . There will always be little or no peace at all because communication is what helps relationships and the lack of it creates trouble which leads to distance.Living in the same house with someone when your mad at each other is a night mare because you wish the fight could be over and it usually takes longer.
Insecurities and fears are what do the worst damage. Sometimes the problem is not the love but who the person is to you.By that i mean if you love the person any little thing they do will always have an effect, and we tend to read into it too much . Which is why don't always listen to what your mind tells you .Learn when to shut it down your own negativity.
All that matters is who you choose to wake up next to because if you sacrifice who you love who you love becomes the sacrifice .
Living together is the true test of relationships in my opinion. If your Words don’t complement actions . There will always be little or no peace at all because communication is what helps relationships and the lack of it creates trouble which leads to distance.Living in the same house with someone when your mad at each other is a night mare because you wish the fight could be over and it usually takes longer.
Insecurities and fears are what do the worst damage. Sometimes the problem is not the love but who the person is to you.By that i mean if you love the person any little thing they do will always have an effect, and we tend to read into it too much . Which is why don't always listen to what your mind tells you .Learn when to shut it down your own negativity.
All that matters is who you choose to wake up next to because if you sacrifice who you love who you love becomes the sacrifice .
Also don't let how people feel about you influence how you feel about them. Love cannot be forced the heart wants what the heart wants.
