THE BEST PART OF GROWING UP IS THAT YOU GET TO BE A MATURE VERSION OF YOUR TRUE SELF

GROWING UP IS TAKING WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNT AND MOVING FORWARD SHEDDING AWAY WHAT IS NOT IMPORTANT AND NOT TAKING IT TO HEART.
see my post on prison of the mind

Sometimes when you go through life in a hurry all you do is miss moments and its only after they pass that you see the importance they had .You will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.

As we  grow up we realise that it is less important to have many friends and more important to have real friends, because now you know better and you choose what is best for you.

You become less concerned with trying to make a momentary impression and become more focused on making a lasting impression.
You arrive at this point in life after you stop cairing about , what other people have to say about you and start cairing for how you feel and what is fulfilling.

As i continue to grow up i see more and more of my younger  self come out the parts of me that i held back or was ashamed of because of what i was told or what people said or felt .Start to come out again and that to me is beautiful because when you watch a child do things they are confident.
Nothing holds them back because they believe in themselves and they are always cheered on.
So i challenge you to do the same. Set yourself free from that prison that you created in your mind based on the opinion of others and your own insecurities.
Cheer yourself on
.Be like that child free to be who they want to be . Unapologetically .

BE UNAPOLOGETICALLY AND AUTHENTICALLY YOU

There are two kinds of women movements  today . Those which  try to eradicate  the differences  between the sexes and urge women to be like men and those which  fully appreciate the uniqueness of womanhood. I belong to the latter group .I want to help the liberated woman retain her femininity. For her to love being a woman.

It is just as important for a man to say whole heatedly . I enjoy being a man .For without emancipated man there would never be emancipated women.
Women will not be freed by trying to act like men.Women bring so much more to life and we get so many passes for being women ,as it is. Men don't get break and they are pushed harder because it is in their will house. We are gentle creatures .Even if we toughen up ,we cannot measure up to them and that is not a bad thing. We fight to be able to do what we are passionate about. We don't fight for equality to say that we want to be like men .Liberation is more difficult. The key is that  women accept themselves in their uniqueness as women.

If I do not live in peace with my body I  do not live in peace with myself. The root of all things lies in self acceptance. You must accept all your qualifications and all your limitations.Nobody on this earth is like you . and you bring something different. When we must change is when we accept our limitations and try and make things better. People may not always appreciate you for you .However it is for you to accept that and surround yourself with people who do.

A woman is the heart of a home. She runs on intuition She is like a flower and can brighten up a room.Women have to rediscover themselves at each and every stage in life .Her body goes through so many changes and she experiences emotion on a wider scale Which makes her even more complex.Yet in all of this she has to meet expectations . She makes her life seem so simple and effortless but the battles that scar her she tends to tuck away.

Live , Learn, Love and never stop being who you are and dont forget that "You learn to love by letting yourself be loved".

'Aimer etre femme.' Love being a woman 

IT IS OK TO BE THE ODD ONE OUT

THEIR IS MORE TO LIFE THAN JUST THE OUTSIDE

Sometimes life hands you things you cant handle and your left bent, different than anyone else.
Yet you still have to struggle on because that is what is expected of you. .
Your not allowed to lay down and let life win ,but at the same time you are never who you were before.

Maybe before you where one of them but now you are different.

Somehow the pieces stop fitting together and the harder you try the more evident it becomes that You are the odd one out.

There is no need to to try fit in .Even if it means being a rebel .
It's ok to be different life.It is ok to embrace the new you.Life has a way of changing us. There is no way to stop it .There is no way to reverse the process.The only thing that will allow you to live your life freely is to allow yourself to go through the changes..See the positivism in it and allow yourself to thrive . Diversity is what makes the world interesting.If we all did the sames things ,lived the same lives things would be really dull . We were given free will and that is what allows us to enjoy this existence