WONDERING SOULS .

If we where both two perfect beings would it be easier to accept eachother. Or does our past make it easier to hold on . Or is it the picture perfect future we could have.

If this was the hardest it was going to be should they face it alone or should they be there to hold eachother up .

Imagine the stories they would share on that swing facing the mountains.

Two souls far and close seem so much further than closer most days .Yet when they lock eyes its more than words can express. Peace, perfection . Home.

Would it be easier to pull the rope in the same direction rather than tug in different directions out of fear. To find it all and to loose it all or to gain it all.

If our existence was long and hard just for us to survive  to take care of those we love . Doesn't that mean at one point we would have to stop to  find our new selves and rediscover who we are now and start to take care of ourselves by taking care of eachother.

The tree that caught fire said let go. The fragile angel said hold on . The bleeding roses said i wasn't the cause . Yet the heart of the compass continued to point to its true north.

Time will tell. Time has told and time continues to say many things but are you listening.

A LETTER TO WOMAN part 1

THE CREATION OF WOMAN
A letter to all women part 1
Book to read the kings daughters by Diana hagee

When I created the heavens and the earth,I spoke things into being.
When I created man,I formed him and breathed life into his nostrils.
But you,woman,I fashioned after I breathed the breath of life into your man because your nostrils were too delicate.
I allowed a deep sleep to come over him so I could patiently and perfectly fashion you.
Man was put to sleep so he could not interfere with the creativity.
From one bone I fashioned you.
 I chose the bone that protects man's life.
 I chose the bone that protects man's life.
I chose the rib,which protects the heart and lungs and supports him,as are meant to do .
Around this one bone I shaped you.
I moulded you.
I created you perfectly and beautifully.
Your characteristics are as the rib-strong yet delicate and fragile.
You provide protection for the most delicate organ in man;his heart.
His heart is the center of his being; his lungs hold the breath of life.
The rib cage will allow itself to be broken,before it will allow damage to the heart.
Support man as the rib cage supports the body.
You were not taken from his foot to be under him, nor were you taken from his head to be above him.
You were taken from his side, to stand beside him and be held close to his side to stand by his side
You are my perfect angel.
You are my beautiful girl.
You have grown to be a splendid woman of excellence,and my Eyes fill when I see the virtue. In your heart.
Your eyes- don't change them.
Your lips how lovely when they part in prayer.
Your nose, so perfect in form.
Your hands so gentle to touch.ive caressed your face in your deepest sleep.
I've held your heart close to mine.

Of all that lives and breaths you are the most like me.
Adam walked with me in the cool of day,and yet he was lonely.
He could not see me or touch me. He could only feel me.
so everything I wanted Adam to share and experience with me.
 I fashioned in you; my holiness,my strength my purity,my love,my protection and support.
You are an extension of me.
Man represents my image.
Woman,my emotions together you represent the. Totality of God

EMOTIONAL HEALING

Emotional healing is the process of acknowledging, allowing, accepting, integrating, and processing painful life experiences and strong emotions. It may involve empathy, self-regulation, self-compassion, self-acceptance, mindfulness, and integration.

Many people have a tendency to want to control the process of emotional healing by minimizing the pain and controlling their emotions, but this can actually inhibit the process of emotional healing.

On my own journey of emotional healing I have tried and failed, thought I had learnt ,had to unlearn ,thought I was making progress but only hiding behind a busy schedule.Being afraid to be alone and sit in silence and even been afraid to look in the mirror because I didn't want to see the pain I was carrying.

What I failed to realize at the time is that when we try to resist feeling something painful, we often protract the very pain we’re trying to avoid. Doing so is a prescription for continued suffering. There’s also something about the action of searching that blocks us from what we seek. The constant looking outside of ourselves can keep us from knowing when we hit the target. Something valuable can be going on inside us, but if we’re not tuning in, we can miss it. “What aren’t you willing to see?"

I eventually learned that it was less about what I could or couldn’t see and more about the way I saw things.

I read a quote that said,"The goal of this madness was to intimately come to know the madness of the mind by observing it. I learned how my mind continually taunted me with worst case-scenario thinking and the lie that if I just worried hard enough, I could insulate myself from what I feared most.

However ,just like my previous post I have learnt that I truly can do what I set myself to doing and with that as my frame of mind I changed alot over the years . It is evident through every post on this blog. I have shared my thoughts and my emotions . I have shared my experiences through each post and helped many of you along the way in different ways. 

 The most important areas to work on I have found to be.

Acceptance of the state I am in.

Finding the roots of the problem.

Letting go and accepting forgiveness of self and giving forgiveness

Physical representation of letting go of areas that need to be let go of.

Setting goals.

Starting over when I felt I hadn't let go 

Releasing yourself.

Finding who you are now .

TRYING SOMETHING NEW

TO LEARN SOMETHING NEW YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING NEW AND NOT BE AFRAID OF FAILING

For the longest time I've always wanted to go Bunge jumping and as the picture shows o finally did it. I'm actually terrified of heights and wanted to see what it would feel like to push myself passed a point I know was going to be harder than usual.

It wasn't easy every step up the 60m crane was excruciating . I stopped and looked down every so often to remind myself how far I had come, but kept looking up at how much further I had to go . Which felt like looking back at my life and looking back up to the future. So many times I could have given up but I didn't and that's my hope for you.

So I woke up one morning and decided to do it after about 10 years of procrastination 🤣 .what I learnt in those 10 min after waiting so long was. I really can do anything I set my mind to. So waiting so long to do it only denied me that satisfaction.

So what I would like to share with you all this year is if you are going to do something. Just do it and do it as soon as you can . Don't deny yourself that simple satisfaction.

BE THE CAT WITH NINE LIVES

WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TODAY ISNT WHAT IT IT WILL FEEL LIKE TOMORROW

Take a deep breath in . Take a deep breath out. That is what time is another heart beat another moment. Another chance. Another day , another night . Another opportunity to make our dreams come true.

We have been made to think that life should be a straight line aiming at whT we want to achieve. There's more to it than that and we should see it like a cat with nine lives to live 

Create ,break ,win ,lose ,cry ,laugh, and build again . We have the opportunity to live our lives in many  lives until our final breath be anything. Be everything you want to be . Experience it all from different perspectives and then fr those moments in memories choose what life means to you.

CHAPTERS IN LIFE

NO TWO SEASONS ARE EVER THE SAME.

One thing about my blogging is that it has been inconsistent. For the longest time I felt like I was failing at my passion only for me to realise that I don't want to write or podcast for the sake of having content out there.

I want to speak when i have something important to share and that only happens when I take time to listen to the lessons I have to learn during each chapter of my life.

Sometes we ask why instead of asking what lesson do I need to learn from this.

And that's what I would like to share with you.

Just like your pet relies on you for sustinence so should you rely on the person that created you. We are like pieces on a chess board you make every step with am end goal. You know the outcome desired but Along the way you have to loose pieces inorder for you to get to win and along the way SE people will take pieces of you. But the most important thing is that you know the direction you want to go in.

That's all for now. Live  life. Learn,Laugh ,Love and follow your dreams.

JUST KEEP SWIMMING

ONE DAY YOU WILL LOOK BACK ON YOUR LIFE AND SEE YOU WHERE JUST BEGINNING TO BLOOM

Stop saying why me and start saying what is it I am yet to learn.

That in itself is the hardest thing to do but it is the most needed thing to do.

Everything happens for a reason and doesn't last forever as long as you keep moving. 

To change the way you think about the hard lessons you learn. Is to see that there is something in you that needed to be re moulded ,inorder for you to be the best version of yourself .

After all what is meant for you will always be yours and what isn't will fall off and die .

All of this is to allow you to fulfill your destiny...

Live ,Love ,Learn and Keep taking the next step and see where it takes you.