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To be completely honest I love words and i struggle through silence but over time I've become an expert on silence. Sometimes when the people you love hurt you the most it's better to stay quiet.because if your love wasn't enough what makes you think your words will matter.
Martin Luther King said ,"in the end we will not remember the words of our enemies but the silence of our friends." if you don't think so try remember a situation where you expected someone to react to something you did but instead they just stayed quiet or said,"it's ok." hahaha those words can drive you insane .
I d like to think that a wise woman knows when to avoid drama because she knows her time is precious and She is not going to waste it on unimportant things. Some battles are not worth fighting and if you keep going you will only regret it.Think back to a time you where mad and said some things but after you cooled down you came up with wiser words you could have said. Now imagine if you just walked away how much better it would have been.
Sometimes it's better to remain silent and let people think you are a FOOL than to speak and to eliminate all doubt that you are one..I've had to deal with snakes disguised as friends.and loved ones that just couldn't be helped at all .Although it hurt at that moment.You need to let people make a FOOL of themselves and let karma catch up with them.
One thing I've learnt is if you speak when you are upset/angry you will make the best speech you will regret.
So please don't act in the spur of the moment. Scream out all you have to say to yourself. Then tell God I'm not going to deal with this.This one is all yours. Then distract yourself as best as you can until you heal .
Live , learn ,love yourself and know one day the situation your stuck in will make for a good laugh.
If you can't stay quiet make sure that come back line is much more beautiful than silence.😉
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