- Am I doing this for myself or just to be seen?
- Will I regret this?
- If given a chance would I still do the same thing again?
- Do I deserve better?
- Is their another solution to my current dilemma?
"For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. " Over the last few years ,the numbers of young girls/boys looking to older men/women for financial support .As a means to an end has risen at an alarming rate that, it has become a norm. So much so that having a "sponsor" as they are now called is a trend.Young boys and girls are willing to do anything these men and women ask in exchange for gifts,treats and money.
Peer pressure, is a factor that contributes hugely so many young girls/boys have been talked into trying it by people who they call friends.
The answers I got from some of the men and women who proudly flaunt their young acquaintances,where an eye opener
"money is a very small price to pay for a good time ." so what do you think a person that thinks that thinks of you."
" There is always someone willing so I can have up to 5 on speed dial." what I'm trying to show you by these examples is that although it may seem like a small price to give up. It takes away much more from you.
This is a huge step backwards as we are slowly going back to primitive traditions. Where, young girls have been sold of to older men in the past ,and the tradition still goes on today .With hundreds of organisations trying to put an end to it .Yet here we are in a situation where people are doing so willingly and society accepts it. Our society has become so corrupted that young girls/boys loose their youth and wake up in a bed of doom
If you think this generation is rotten wait till you see the next one seeing as nobody is willing to teach them right from wrong in an age socialites/celebrities flaunt often fake/borrowed wealth and young people do whatever it takes to keep up With current trends.
Life has lessons and most often, loosing everything brings you more .As it is the lack of. That brings you closer to your creator and your reality all this to equip you with skills you will need in the future.
Giving up morals for money and luxuries you can live without won't take away the truth of the situation and it's the guilt that will later tear or damage your own future. The thing about us humans is that we think as long as I am getting away with something all is well. However that's far from the truth. One lie or one bad decision can cost you more than you stand to gain when karma steps in.
Especially where you end up getting sexually transmitted diseases on that quest for money. Children are being brought up in broken homes where fathers/mothers forsake their roles as providers in search of a young toy to splurge on. 5 years back walking into a restaurant and finding a young girl/boy seated with someone old enough to be your parent or grand parent was a rare and most often someone would speak up on it. However having a younger fling is like an accessory. We see it and say #sponsorthings shrug our shoulders and carry on.
We all have choices to make and we all want that happy ending. I was once told "it's better to have a tough beginning and a happy ending than a happy and smooth beginning but a bad ending." Choose wisely.
You may be able to fool everyone for now and even yourself but what happens when your all alone left to deal with the consequences of your actions. Who will be there to talk you from falling off the ledge. Nobody will ever love/value you more than you love and value you.
So don't Trade your happiness for money today in hopes that you will get it back tomorrow. It's not a guarantee you will get it back
