BE THE CAT WITH NINE LIVES

WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TODAY ISNT WHAT IT IT WILL FEEL LIKE TOMORROW

Take a deep breath in . Take a deep breath out. That is what time is another heart beat another moment. Another chance. Another day , another night . Another opportunity to make our dreams come true.

We have been made to think that life should be a straight line aiming at whT we want to achieve. There's more to it than that and we should see it like a cat with nine lives to live 

Create ,break ,win ,lose ,cry ,laugh, and build again . We have the opportunity to live our lives in many  lives until our final breath be anything. Be everything you want to be . Experience it all from different perspectives and then fr those moments in memories choose what life means to you.

CHAPTERS IN LIFE

NO TWO SEASONS ARE EVER THE SAME.

One thing about my blogging is that it has been inconsistent. For the longest time I felt like I was failing at my passion only for me to realise that I don't want to write or podcast for the sake of having content out there.

I want to speak when i have something important to share and that only happens when I take time to listen to the lessons I have to learn during each chapter of my life.

Sometes we ask why instead of asking what lesson do I need to learn from this.

And that's what I would like to share with you.

Just like your pet relies on you for sustinence so should you rely on the person that created you. We are like pieces on a chess board you make every step with am end goal. You know the outcome desired but Along the way you have to loose pieces inorder for you to get to win and along the way SE people will take pieces of you. But the most important thing is that you know the direction you want to go in.

That's all for now. Live  life. Learn,Laugh ,Love and follow your dreams.

JUST KEEP SWIMMING

ONE DAY YOU WILL LOOK BACK ON YOUR LIFE AND SEE YOU WHERE JUST BEGINNING TO BLOOM

Stop saying why me and start saying what is it I am yet to learn.

That in itself is the hardest thing to do but it is the most needed thing to do.

Everything happens for a reason and doesn't last forever as long as you keep moving. 

To change the way you think about the hard lessons you learn. Is to see that there is something in you that needed to be re moulded ,inorder for you to be the best version of yourself .

After all what is meant for you will always be yours and what isn't will fall off and die .

All of this is to allow you to fulfill your destiny...

Live ,Love ,Learn and Keep taking the next step and see where it takes you.

A MOTHERS LOVE PART 2

THE MOST MAGICAL DAY OF MY LIFE WAS WHEN I BECAME A MOTHER.

I've been looking back at my journey of motherhood I must say it's nothing like what I envisioned it to be . What I know is that it is much better than what I thought.

To be a mother is to learn and unlearn.

It is to admit you are wrong and might not always have the answers.

Being a mother is locking yourself in the bathroom long enought to come out with a smile on your face 

It is to sacrifice everything so that someone else can have everything.

It is to live your life with your heart on your sleeve.

It is to roar like a lioness To chase away the enemy.

But be gentle enough to carry your cub in your mouth without hurting it.

It is to discover what life means and to have your heart break because of the knowledge you have to carry with you.

It is to live your nightmares and still believe in that dream.

It is to know nothing at all but share what you know as if you know it all 

It is to patiently wait quietly until they discover how amazing you are.

GROWING OLDER (WISDOM IN AGING)

YOU ALREADY ARE THAT PERSON SO PUT YOURSELF IN THAT PLACE.

Looking back on my life I've come to see aging isn't what you think it's going to be and also being young isn't the only thing you are going to be.

It's a delicate balance.You've got to give yourself the right amount of time. Enought to learn and apply what you have learnt and enough to know when to unlearn what you learnt.

I've also found that seeing the world through a child's eyes means to be yourself and not let external factors dictate who you should be.

I've also realized that the fountain of youth does exist but it exists in your mind and what you feed it and what you allow it.

I have also realized that as good as it feels to receive it feels much better to give .

I've realized that we allow our thoughts to imprison us but it is in our words that we find freedom.

To live you must love and to love means you will loose something to gain something else in return.

I have seen that sometimes it's when it's darkest that you get the strength to live.

I have learnt that faith truly is all you need .

Believing in something ensures that you get up and try again even when you don't want to .

However my favorite lesson is that you can never do things on your own you have to have people in your life to show you what life truly is .

Live,learn ,laugh ,love and never stop dreaming....

Http://linktr.ee/nairobifeminist 

THE EASIEST BUT HARDEST THING YOU CAN EVER LEARN

The simplest stories are the hardest to tell and the hardest stories echo the loudest.

I closed my eyes to find myself stairing at a younger version of myself.

And all I could hear was the phrase from that song "don't worry be happy."

Looking at that version of myself .

Knowing what I know now is that as easy , and  as true as those words where . It was the hardest to achieve.

You never know it's going to be alright until you have gone through it.

So all you have to do is show up so it can all fall into place.

Such is life full of complex simplicity and vice versa 

So if we know it's going to be better tomorrow than it was yesterday in the long run .

Why is it much harder to convince ourself today!

The answer I have found is because we put to much faith in the problem than we do in the solution.

Accept what you can't change, Learn from what you can change and be ok to let them both go .

So you can achieve what you want to.

HOW TO STOP DEPRESSION

In life we sometimes get mad at the people who are in our life for staying that we push them away and hate them for leaving.

Pain ,trauma, physical reminders and emotional scars have a way of being etched so deep in our mind that we go on an instinctual defensive mode.

We raise our walls and without knowing the very thing we where trying to avoid is what happens .

How do we avoid this ? The simple but hard solution is to simply to deal with the root cause of our triggers. Whatever causes you to need to protect yourself even when you don't need to protect yourself needs to be regulated.

How you ask? By simply saying this made me heart because it reminded me of this. However you then have to realize that this is a completely different situation and or person and or thing. And judging it based on a past experience unrelated is making a poor decision an unfair decision.

We need to learn how to heal our emotions by feeding them on a healthy emotional diet.  Feeling yourself with love, acceptance,and kindness . Knowing that someone else's decisions and opinions are their own and they should have little to no effect on how you see yourself.

You are the most important person in your life .Fill yourself with positivity and reassurance and most importantly self love.

Let your guard down. Set aside your pride and disconnect all the parts of your life that only bring you pain even if it also brings you joy. Choose you . Choose to heal .

Cry through the lows ,laugh through the highs but don't ever agree to feel that you don't deserve to be here Abit longer to try achieve the happiness you deserve.