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Thursday, October 25, 2018

DISCOVERING MY SEXUALITY (part 2 nonbinary/transgender)

Brief intro................
The term “nonbinary” can mean different things to different people.It’s used to describe someone whose gender identity isn’t exclusively male or female.

If someone tells you they’re nonbinary,  ask what being nonbinary means to them. Some people who are nonbinary experience their gender as both male and female, and others experience their gender as neither male nor female.
Nonbinary can also be used as an umbrella term, encompassing many gender identities that don’t fit into the male-female binary.

Although nonbinary is often regarded as a new idea, the identifier has been around for as long as civilization has. In fact, nonbinary gender has been recorded as far back as 400 B.C. to 200 A.D., when Hijras — people in India who identified as beyond male or female — were referenced in ancient Hindu texts.

Once upon a time .
i was exactly what everyone thought i was supposed to be.
 I was what you considered normal.
You treated me as a friend.
No stares , No silent whispers.
I was one of you.

As i began to express my own sense of style.
You. Said it was un acceptable .It was taboo.
You made me ashamed of being who i wanted to be.

Once upon a time.
 I was told to dream big. "The sky is the limit."
You encouraged me to dare to be different .
You told me i should live my best life.
And when i did 
You said ,"im too much for you ."
I should be less like me and more like you.
You want me to please you ,and deny myself.
You want me to live a lie so you can live your truth.

My gender is your struggle.
How i look! how i dress, how i choose to express myself.
What is it to you ,who i choose to be? 
what makes you think that i am an anomaly . 
And one day my brain will snap back to your binary systems?

Is it my fault,
You only see in black and white and i can see a scope of colours,
where i am free and aware .
You are closed off 
And in a world of infinate possibilities.
You want me to deny the possibility that actually matter's
and entertain the thought of alians yet a human like you shouldn't get a chance to be free to be who they are.
Your ignorance is your prison.
You are imprisoned by your programming ,
where you work for it and it  uses you.

I was born and you defined what i was .
I now choose to be what i want to be.
I intend on living this life as both male and female.
And i can also choose to be neither .
I am that cool.

Embrace me dont reject me .
Because i accept you as you are and all i ask is for you to do the same for me.