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Single parenting
Single parenting
When im asked about parenthood i always say,
"Becoming a parent doesnt mean you have all the skills to be the best parent .
It just means that you will have to do your best for your child and be their rock during all kinds of storms in your life and theirs."
"Becoming a parent doesnt mean you have all the skills to be the best parent .
It just means that you will have to do your best for your child and be their rock during all kinds of storms in your life and theirs."
Absolutely nothing is easy about being a parent.From the day you find out you are going to be a parent . The struggle begins .
Although you have an idea of what sacrifices will be required .It doesnt prepare you for what is actually involved.
We live at a time where single parenthood is at an all time high. Inability to parent your own child does bare its own weight .
In my opinion. I think, it is easier for an individual to realise they cannot be an adequate parent and leave than to have. A parent that isnt fully invested in their childs life.
A parent that will bring disappointment and cause the child emotional baggage. As a result of indecision.
A parent that will bring disappointment and cause the child emotional baggage. As a result of indecision.
At the same time . We should understand that children dont bring themselves into this world and ,
That you have to adapt to the role because it is a very fulfilling role.
That you have to adapt to the role because it is a very fulfilling role.
The innocence and purity of the child and the childs journey brings lessons that make the journey easier. Where there is a will their is a way.
The rewards of being a parent is a gift from God and he doesnt give you something you cannot handle.
We do try to shield our children from alot that goes on around them. However with age they start to understand things better. They make their own realizations and as parents the best thing to do is to tell them the truth when the time comes.
The fact that you chose to be the best for your child says more about your character than the person that chose to leave selfishly. Dont be ashamed that you are alone . Dont allow self pitty and doubt take control .
Every life is a blessing from God and he watches over his own.
In all things ,take each day as it comes. Learn. Love your angel and know that, the grass does get greener with time just be patient.
In all things ,take each day as it comes. Learn. Love your angel and know that, the grass does get greener with time just be patient.
